Ein Bericht aus der Reihe: WO ENGAGIERT SICH START?
von START-Salzburg Alumna Mehanaz Kabir:
Diesen Sommer hatte ich die Gelegenheit ein tolles, österreichisches Sozialprojekt in Nepal zu unterstützen. Es ging darum in zwei Schulen, einer Gefängnisschule und einer neu erbauten Slumschule Kinder, vorwiegend Mädchen zu unterrichten, aber auch ihrer Lehrpersonen fortzubilden und auch Aufklärungsarbeit bezüglich Stigmata um die Menstruation.
Genaueres dazu hier in Mehanaz’ ausführlichem Bericht auf Englisch:
For many children in Nepal, school is simply not an option. They work in the streets with their parents, a necessity just to stay alive. Every day, 365 days a year these kids, especially girls, work in the streets. If not, they risk being married off, sold for their organs, skin trade or prostitution. While these children dream of going to school, my childhood dream was to help make theirs come true. Little did I know how easily I would get the chance to do so. But let me take you along this dream fulfilling journey of mine, a journey which really felt more like a fairytale to me.
Dream improbable dreams and follow your
heart to create a fairytale.
– The beginning of my personal fairytale
Once upon a time, there was a girl scrolling through her Facebook feed
since she was bedridden due to torn ligaments. Being both, bored and gloomy
that she could not join in any more hiking trips, despite the fact that she was
living on the paradise island La Réunion as an Erasmus student, meant that she did
not paying much attention to the posts she was scrolling past. Posts about
recent incidences and world affairs, pictures of super-duper healthy
chia-spinach breakfast bowls or cat videos, as cute as they might be, nothing
could grab her attention. As she was about to find a new past time to occupy
herself, she stumbled upon a note in a facebook group looking for volunteers
for a newly built Nepali school supporting girls’ rights. Not trusting her
eyes, she read that notice over and over, just to make sure that it really was
the perfect project for her: Not only was it an Austrian based project in South
Asia, but also the aim of the project to give poor children, especially girls, a
future perspective. What better reason could she find to leave her beloved paradise
island? Without any further ado, the application
was written, sent and it received a positive response. How lucky had she been
to have torn her ligaments! Otherwise she would have never stayed at home and
scrolled through social media, just to find her next step in life.
In every end, there is also a beginning.
– From La Réunion over Bangkok to Birganj, Nepal
This is how my fairytale started at the end of March. Mid Mai, after difficult
goodbyes from La Réunion and some entry problems which prolonged the transit
stay in Bangkok from three hours to ten days, I finally arrived in Nepal.
Again, how lucky I was to have passport and visa issues! During my unintended
stay in Thailand the coronation ceremony – the first one since nearly 70 years
– of the new king Maha Vajiralongkorn, better known as Rama X, took place. After
solving the paper difficulties and landing in the Nepalese capital Kathmandu,
the journey was not over yet. On the contrary, it was there where it began. Anamika,
the headmaster of both schools I would teach in and at the same time my host
mum, along with my host dad picked me up at the airport. After spending a day
in Kathmandu, exchanging money and getting enough energy for the upcoming trip,
we took the night bus to Birganj, my future home three months. Upon arrival Anamika
recounted that due to engine failure the duration of the ride had risen from
eight hours for the approximate 140 kilometres to ten hours. How lucky was I to
get two more hours of sleep in the bus!
Some girls are lost in the fire; some
girls are built from it.
– Child Vision Nepal and its focus on girls
Right after arrival, I was tossed into the adventure of my life: Not
only teaching about six classes with altogether 180 kids and helping with the
development of a curriculum for a newly built school but also preparing
workshops to educate women about their bodies. The association I worked with,
Child Vision Nepal, supports three projects: Nepal’s first agricultural school
with 80% girls from the lowest caste, a prison school that offers education and
security to children living with their parents incarcerated for petty crimes, and a newly built slum school
with 90% girls.
That organisation focuses predominantly on girls because the
founders of the society, Brigitte and Heinz Sölligner became aware of the
hopeless situation of women of the lowest caste, the Dalits, during their first
trip to Nepal. Every year, more than 20.000 girls are kidnapped and forced into
prostitution. Most of them are between six and sixteen years old. In the
brothels, they are tortured, raped and drugged in order to behave in the manner
the procurer want them to. Contraception is seldom the subject of discussion,
no wonder most girls get infected with HIV, Hepatis etc. The girls are not
released from the brothels until they are infected or “consumed and used”.
Further business branches are organ- and skin trade for plastic surgery.
You will neither change the world, nor Nepal,
but you will change the life of some girls and that’s all that matters. Brigitte Söllinger
– The pupils and their schools
In order to save at least some girls from that future, Child Vision
Nepal was founded. Nevertheless, one cannot change the world that easily, so it
is not uncommon that rape victims would be among the pupils or parents still
tried to marry off girls, even though it is forbidden by both the law and the
school rules. Yet, Unterstützt werden folgende Projekte
* “Samata-Landwirtschaftsschule” – erste Landwirtschaftsschule des
Landes für 750 Kinder (80% Mädchen aus der untersten Kaste)
* “Samata-Gefängnisschule” – diese Schule befindet sich in Birgunj
(an der Grenze zu Indien) und bietet 150 Kindern, deren Mütter oder Väter wegen
Kleinkriminalität im Gefängnis sind, Bildungsmöglichkeit und Sicherheit. Diese
Kinder dürfen in der Gefängnisschule täglich einige Stunden dem Elend des
Gefängnislebens entkommen.
* “Slum Schule” – die erste Schule in einem Slum in Birgunj. Sie
bietet 30-60 Kindern (90% Mädchen) Bildung und Sicherheit. Zugleich ist die
Schule auch ein Ort, wo den Müttern bei Frauenabenden Wissen über den eigenen
Körper vermittelt wird. Unterstützt werden folgende Projekte
* “Samata-Landwirtschaftsschule” – erste Landwirtschaftsschule des
Landes für 750 Kinder (80% Mädchen aus der untersten Kaste)
* “Samata-Gefängnisschule” – diese Schule befindet sich in Birgunj
(an der Grenze zu Indien) und bietet 150 Kindern, deren Mütter oder Väter wegen
Kleinkriminalität im Gefängnis sind, Bildungsmöglichkeit und Sicherheit. Diese
Kinder dürfen in der Gefängnisschule täglich einige Stunden dem Elend des
Gefängnislebens entkommen.
* “Slum Schule” – die erste Schule in einem Slum in Birgunj. Sie
bietet 30-60 Kindern (90% Mädchen) Bildung und Sicherheit. Zugleich ist die
Schule auch ein Ort, wo den Müttern bei Frauenabenden Wissen über den eigenen
Körper vermittelt wird.the kids are brimful of life, full of energy and very
keen to learn, if not the most motivated children I had the honour to teach.
They are gorgeous, noisy, cheerful, cheeky but also often dirty. The slum
school provides a shower and sanitary facilities for the children as well as
for the mothers to stay clean, proper and healthy. Moreover, the kids were
provided not only with sanitary items like tooth brushes but also with school
supplies like books, stationary and the school uniform. I still remember
vividly the spark in their little eyes when the kids learned how to tie their
very first pair of closed shoes, or when they were tracing the lines of letters
in their very first own book. Thus, teaching these children was a highly
rewarding thing to do, for which I gladly put up with the long, damaged way to
the slum school and power blackouts which lead to not operating fans even on
days with 43°C and more.
Children must be taught how to think, not
what to think.
– Organising a teacher’s seminar
Yet, just teaching the children was not sufficient, since the teaching
methods in Nepal are still “old-school”, as in, just learning everything by
heart instead of really understanding the material. Or getting hit by the
teacher is something pupils can count on if they do not obey. In order to
change that way of thinking, I organised a seminar for the teachers of both
schools. Even though I do not have a proper training for teaching, I could
share my longstanding experiences from tutoring, teaching in other projects and
of course my outstanding schoolteachers in Austria. So, the teachers, who
themselves where young women, sacrificed a whole Saturday, the only school free
day of the week in Nepal, to learn “new” methods, songs and games to loosen up
the frontal teaching. To ensure a lively exchange on the latest learn songs and
techniques, getting help and staying in touch, a WhatsApp group was founded. What
is more, together we arranged a time table and fixed school rules, where for
instance rule number one is ‘No beating, no fighting’, right before ‘No
littering’.
A period should end a sentence, not a
girl’s education.
– Organising a menstrual awareness workshop
Most of the litter was the pads both schools provided anyways. These
pads were provided, so that the girls do not have to miss school while having
their period. My attempt to establish menstrual cups in order to reduce waste
failed due to the inconvenience of properly cleaning. However, distributing
pads was already a step in the right direction regarding the health of the
girls, since most of them would otherwise use pieces of old cloth that often
lead to harmful infections and even infertility. To inform about the risks of
using these “cloth pads”, but also to raise awareness about menstruation in
general, I organised a ‘Menstrual awareness workshop’ in both schools – not
only for the girls but also their mothers, sisters, aunties, neighbours and
whoever they wanted to invite. Menstruation is a huge taboo topic; therefore,
girls and women rarely know what really happens in their bodies. Often they are
seen as impure during their menstruation and thus banned from fulfilling
worship service, household chores and sometimes even sharing the same dining
table or rooms with their family. To break this stigma and injustice, the
processes in the female body, healthy diet and lifestyle including menstrual
hygiene, were elucidated with graphics and videos, in both languages, English
and – with the help of the head master Anamika- in Nepali.
The limits of my language means the limit
of my world. Ludwig Wittgenstein
– Culture clash by the example of the language
In the beginning, I was concerned that my lack of Nepali would be a
problem since Anamika would not always be here to translate. Even though I
realised soon that one can relate to kids in any language if you are confident
enough, willing to make it work and if you are able to make the kids laugh;
nevertheless when teaching and learning, the importance of the native language
cannot be denied. Therefore, I started learning Hindi. First with the notes from
my host mum, then adding YouTube videos and a grammar book a neighbour and friend
got me from India. You might be wondering what use there is in learning Hindi
even though Nepali is the only official language of Nepal? To begin with, Birganj
is just at the Indian border, most of its inhabitants, no matter what age,
caste or educational background, not only speak Nepali but also Bhojpuri and
Hindi – a fact which impressed me a lot. What is more, not only are Nepali and
Hindi related to each other, but Hindi is also close to one of my mother
tongues, Bengali. Hence, it was more approachable for me and easier to master
in such a short time. In general, my Bengali background made it easier for me
to deal with the given circumstances in Nepal which differed a lot to what I
was used to.
What the world of tomorrow will be like is
greatly dependent on the power of imagination in those who are learning to read
today. Astrid Lindgren
– Personal gains for my future
To put in a nutshell, while I was there, I experienced moments I could
not even have dreamt of. Of course,
there is still a lot to improve, for instance enlarging upon the new teaching
and learning methods or breaking more stigmas regarding female bodies and their
sexuality. However, the stay also taught me a lot. First and foremost, I
learned how to see the world through the eyes of a child again, which makes
life a lot easier and relaxed. Also experiencing how grateful everybody is for
even the smallest things made me appreciate everything even more. And of
course, not all my stay was just filled with work. After teaching in school and
preparing for the next days or workshops I got to spend my free time exploring
the area and the South Nepalese culture. It was not too rare an occasion that I
made use of the local swimming pool during the “girls time” where several
girls, including neighbours, approached me, to teach them how to swim, being
one of the only girls able to do it. So I did. Soon teaching the neighbour
girls how to ride the bike was added to my free time activities. That was when
I realized that once a teacher always a teacher. And I really enjoyed having found
different ways to empower girls! What is more, since these girls did not really
speak English, my Hindi could progress even faster. So, thanks to the stay I
did not only gain experience, joie de vivre, friends and a new family on the
other side of the globe but also had the chance to learn and practice another
language.
An investment in education pays best
interest. Benjamin Franklin
– How to contribute and acknowledgement
This is why I would love to see the project go further, see how in depth the
helping aspect of the programme could be and see how each kid, I love so
dearly, evolves. So, it is not the end of my personal fairytale of fulfilling
my childhood dream yet. And yours can begin too! Child Vision Nepal focuses on
giving these children other future perspectives and some enjoyment in life they
would have never been provided with otherwise. If you want to contribute, don’t
hesitate to contact me (me.kabir@outlook.at)
or Child Vision Nepal (childvision.nepal@outlook.com)
directly. Every contribution, no matter if financial or otherwise. Recourses
like time and input will gratefully be accepted.
With that in mind, I would also like to thank some people without whom
this experience would not have been the same. Thanks a lot, Brigitte, for
giving me the freedom to operate as much or as little as I wanted to, for accepting
my poor communication skills and of course for having made everything happen. A
huge thank you also goes to my Nepali friends and host family, especially my
host mother Anamika, for giving me the feeling as if I was part of Birganj. Additionally,
whenever I was suffering from culture shock or home sickness my friends and
family were there for me, even if only via video chat. And of course, this
experience made me appreciate the education I received from the great teachers
I had, even more. Therefore, I am utterly grateful for all my teachers that not
only showed me that I already had what it takes to make it but also how to use
these tools. Basically, that is exactly what I tried to teach in the schools. But
in reality, the kids taught me way more than I could have ever taught them.
gleichzeitig ein Stipendiat ist, aufmerksam gemacht um ihm in Darstellender Geometrie zu helfen. Kurzer Zeit später fanden der Stipendiat und ich einen 
ein Young Leadership Seminar zu besuchen, um besser in die Rolle als Sprecher reinzuschlüpfen. Obwohl die jährlich neu kommenden Stipendiaten sich schnell in die START-Familie integrieren, denke ich, dass es noch ein bisschen Handlungsbedarf gibt.
